When Love Feels Like Prison
By Lita J | Real Talk. Real Healing. Real You.
When Love Feels Like Prison I once loved someone who wasn’t free. Not locked in a cell, but bound tight by invisible chains. Emotionally incarcerated.
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At first, it looked like love. The conversations were electric, the affection was overwhelming, and I thought I had finally found something real. But slowly, the truth revealed itself, piece by piece, like cracks spreading across glass.
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It was in the way they shut down after an argument, staring at me like I was someone else’s ghost. It was in the way they questioned my loyalty, even after I gave them every ounce of honesty I had.
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It was in the way their mood flipped without warning, sweet in the morning, distant by nightfall.
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Being with them felt like living in a courtroom. On trial for crimes I didn’t commit. Always defending myself against people I’d never even met, the ones who left, lied, or betrayed them before I showed up.
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They bled on me though I never cut them.
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They punished me for wounds I didn’t cause.
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They lied when the truth was safe with me.
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And I stayed, because I thought love could be the key. Serving Time in Their Prison When someone is emotionally incarcerated, you don’t just love them—you serve time with them. Every day is a visitation. You slide your love through the bars, hoping it will be enough to unlock the door. It never is.
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The air feels heavy, like you’re always walking on eggshells. You start second-guessing every word, every text, every silence. You keep trying to show them: I’m not like the ones who left you. But no matter what you do, their past wins every argument.
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And one day, I realized:
I was not their partner. I was their cellmate.