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When Love Feels Like Prison

By Lita J | Real Talk. Real Healing. Real You.

 When Love Feels Like Prison I once loved someone who wasn’t free. Not locked in a cell, but bound tight by invisible chains. Emotionally incarcerated.

At first, it looked like love. The conversations were electric, the affection was overwhelming, and I thought I had finally found something real. But slowly, the truth revealed itself, piece by piece, like cracks spreading across glass.

It was in the way they shut down after an argument, staring at me like I was someone else’s ghost. It was in the way they questioned my loyalty, even after I gave them every ounce of honesty I had.

It was in the way their mood flipped without warning, sweet in the morning, distant by nightfall.

Being with them felt like living in a courtroom. On trial for crimes I didn’t commit. Always defending myself against people I’d never even met, the ones who left, lied, or betrayed them before I showed up.

They bled on me though I never cut them.

They punished me for wounds I didn’t cause.

They lied when the truth was safe with me.

And I stayed, because I thought love could be the key. Serving Time in Their Prison When someone is emotionally incarcerated, you don’t just love them—you serve time with them. Every day is a visitation. You slide your love through the bars, hoping it will be enough to unlock the door. It never is.

The air feels heavy, like you’re always walking on eggshells. You start second-guessing every word, every text, every silence. You keep trying to show them: I’m not like the ones who left you. But no matter what you do, their past wins every argument.

And one day, I realized:

I was not their partner. I was their cellmate.